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I Finally Did It at 52—So Why Does My Heart Still Hurt?
At 52 years old, I can look back over my life and admit that I have made plenty of mistakes. There are things I would do differently if I could, opportunities I wish I had taken more seriously, and times when I allowed other people's opinions of me to determine how I felt about myself. But today, I can also say something I have wanted to say for a very long time: I finished my bachelor's degree. I just turned in my final assignment and completed all of the requirements for gr
Aug 214 min read
Sometimes Letting Go Is the Healthiest Thing You Can Do After 50
One of the biggest lessons I've learned after turning 50 is that not everyone is meant to go with you into the next chapter of your life. For a long time, I believed that if someone had been my friend for years, they would always be my friend. I thought history meant loyalty. I thought time invested meant the relationship would last forever. I was wrong. Turning 50 brought some difficult realizations about people and friendships. I learned that some people enjoy being around
Jul 132 min read
How Do You Keep Yourself from Being Used by Your Adult Children?
No one tells you that one of the hardest parts of parenting begins after your children become adults. As parents, we spend years teaching our children to walk, make decisions, solve problems, and become independent. We celebrate every milestone, hoping one day they will build happy, successful lives of their own. And many do. They become responsible adults who make thoughtful decisions, manage their finances, and only ask for help when they truly need it. Those children often
Jul 132 min read
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